Situation - You are observing how someone is a blamer or blamee and what they should do to show appreciation. Also, how jealous someone is.
"When you truly don't care what anyone thinks of you, you have reached a dangerously awesome level of freedom."
1. Director - ESTJ
As Blamer: Is aware of who is making the mistakes and why and informs.
As Blamee: Blames self, but with no admission.
Jealousy Rating: Average.
Generally do not become jealous of others’ possessions,
instead using it as a motivator or reorienting themselves to develop their skills.
However, in romantic relationships can, although rarely, become jealous. If they do,
they will become very controlling in the relationship, trying to prevent their significant
other from talking to other people, etc.
Care of other's opinions rating: 11/16.
Should show appreciation by: Being aware that some people need to stop and be recognized
in order to feel appreciated. A big “thank you” and “you made a difference” is required even though
they might feel that this is a waste of time.
Modus Operandi: Values efficiency which can sometimes cause trouble with needing to place blame.
May forgive but will insist on improvement or you are out!
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2. Developer - ENTJ
As Blamer: Does not need someone to blame. Becomes annoyed with people who cannot handle themselves properly.
As Blamee: Sense of humour failure.
Jealousy Rating: Low.
Are not generally jealous of others. They use others’ success as a motivator
and craft their own plans for success accordingly. If they do experience jealousy in a romantic relationship,
they can become controlling and manipulative, although they will not show their feelings outwardly.
Care of other's opinions rating: 15/16.
Should show appreciation by: Placing reminders in the calendar to offer genuine only praise
to workers and those close. Doing something competently is just one reason to be praised.
Being someone who makes a difference in other people’s lives is another.
Modus Operandi: Will remove continual mistake makers if no improvement.
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3. Results - ESTP
As Blamer: Annoyed with people who need to constantly place blame; prefers solutions and to move on.
As Blamee: Dos not like it; defensively blames others.
Jealousy Rating: Totally fine or batsh1t insane.
Are more likely to become jealous over a romantic
relationship than looking at other’s successes. They will use these as a motivator and generally can appreciate
their own strengths and successes. However, in a romantic relationship, they can become aggressive towards people
whom they feel are threatening, possessive and very “macho” dominant in general. e.g. Likely to start fights
at the bar over a comment to or about their girlfriend.
Care of other's opinions rating: 12/16.
Should show appreciation by: Checking with others’ schedules before showing appreciation
using the typical fun approach while not disrupting their process.
Modus Operandi: Has hard time seeing their own mistakes as wants to be impressive.
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4. Inspirational - ENTP
As Blamer: Regard it as pointless. Is aware of who is making the mistakes and why.
As Blamee: Ducks and weaves - It's not me.
Jealousy Rating: Least.
Rarely experience jealousy. Are usually good at appreciating
others’ strengths and allowing their partner freedom without becoming envious or paranoid. However,
they can experience jealousy if they feel as though they are lacking needed social validation and
become jealous of those that they feel are receiving more attention/praise. Even in these situations,
the feeling generally passes quickly and they move on fairly quickly.
Care of other's opinions rating: 10/16.
Should show appreciation by: Recognizing that happy people tend to do better work and stay longer
in their job. Remember that different things make different people happy.
Modus Operandi: Continual mistake makers on the same item will be shown a better approach
to avoid repetition.
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5. Persuader - ENFJ
As Blamer: Is frustrated with people who always have to place blame on others. Prefers to move forward.
As Blamee: Do not like it especially if they have not done it. In denial when held to account.
Can blames self when should not, but with no admission.
Jealousy Rating: Highest.
Can become jealous regarding their interpersonal relationships, either romantic
or friendships. In addition, they can become jealous if they see that others’ have skills that they wish they had.
They may try to talk over these emotions with someone else or manipulate those around them in order to try to
reclaim this attention.
Care of other's opinions rating: 2/16.
Should show appreciation by: Recognizing that different people like to be appreciated in different ways.
Just because a Persuader likes public recognition does not mean that everyone else will.
Modus Operandi: Want those close to support them and dislike when they do not appear perfect to them.
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6. Appraiser - ESFJ
As Blamer: Becomes rather annoyed when witnesses people constantly searching for someone to blame.
As Blamee: Often internally blames themselves over things they should not.
Jealousy Rating: Highest.
Can become jealous if they see that others are receiving more
attention/praise than them or have qualities that they wish they had. In this case, they can become
extremely controlling of the other person and manipulative to get the attention/praise they think
they deserve.
Care of other's opinions rating: 1/16.
Should show appreciation by: Showing appreciation for others through honouring traditions
and celebrating. But others may prefer a more casual approach.
Modus Operandi: Prefers to focus on ways to solve the problem at hand.
Does not believe in trying to shame people about their errors.
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7. Promoter - ENFP
As Blamer: Casting blame causes frustration and unease.
As Blamee: Dislikes and feels hurt when someone attempts to place blame.
Jealousy Rating: High.
If healthy, they tend to be good at appreciating others for their
successes and trusting whomever if they are in a relationship. However, they may become jealous of
others’ skills or even in a romantic relationship. If they do experience jealousy, they will withdraw
from those with whom they are experiencing it in conjunction with wallowing in their own thoughts
of inadequacy and envy.
Care of other's opinions rating: 7/16.
Should show appreciation by: Striking a balance between the traditional 'cheerleader' approach
by showing appreciation in a more subtle manner for those who might need a bit more space to
celebrate in a more reflective manner.
Modus Operandi: Does not play Blame Gamez™ unless toxic. Allows for mistakes, as long as moral.
Will not ever take responsibility.
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8. Counselor - ESFP
As Blamer: Happiest when they are around people who do not feel the need to constantly place blame.
As Blamee: Difficult to feel blame for anything, will feel hurt.
Jealousy Rating: Highest.
Can be prone to jealousy if they feel as if they are not getting the
attention they think deserve or are being neglected in a relationship. If they feel these emotions they are
likely to find some sort of way of gaining this attention back. They will either play games with the other
person, e.g. by flirting with someone else, or do something to draw attention back to themselves.
Care of other's opinions rating: 8/16.
Should show appreciation by: Striking a balance between the traditional tendency to enjoy
hands-on activities in the moment with others who might welcome a little more planned and subdued approach.
Modus Operandi: Feels defensive and tries to blame someone else, for fear of becoming the one being chastised.
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9. Specialist - ISFP
As Blamer: Frustrated by those who seek to blame others especially when to chastise.
As Blamee: Sensitive. Dislikes the idea of blame at all.
Jealousy Rating: Average.
Are more likely to get jealous in romantic relationships than over
possessions or skills that others have. They may internalize these emotions, or express them through
artistic and creative outlets. Or they may react in anger or by reckless behaviour, possibly hooking up
with others in order to attempt to move on/get rid of their negative emotions.
Care of other's opinions rating: 6/16.
Should show appreciation by: Adjusting the behind-the-scenes approach (thoughtful actions and gifts) and others
may not notice what has been done for them. In turn, they may show appreciation in a way very different from the way
it might be expected.
Modus Operandi: Forgets mistakes of the past and moves forward.
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10 Investigator - INFJ
As Blamer: Cannot appreciate people who blame others for their own mistakes.
As Blamee: Blames self for things for which should not take responsibility.
Jealousy Rating: High.
Tend to become jealous when others are more talented or get more
praise than them in areas that they think they deserve it. Since they need social validation, especially
in the area of their own talents and special qualities, this can be an area of sensitivity. However,
they will not make an outward grab for attention or praise, instead letting these emotions out
through passive aggression, inward frustration and negative thoughts towards whomever is upstaging them.
Care of other's opinions rating: 4/16.
Should show appreciation by: Recognizing others for the little things they do helps them keep moving
forward to accomplish those bigger things. Be aware not to be future-focused that appreciating what is happening
right in front of them is not forgotten.
Modus Operandi: Prefers those who can take responsibility for their actions.
Often takes on the blame and guilt when they have done nothing wrong.
Unnecessarily burdens themselves.
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11. Agent - INFP
As Blamer: Becomes annoyed with people who always seek to blame someone else; thinks this is harsh mentality.
As Blamee: Dislikes feeling the blame for something, especially if being badgered. Sometimes self blames.
Jealousy Rating: High.
Can get jealous over others’ successes or in a romantic relationship. They will
try to talk themselves out of it but, if they are unsuccessful, they will internalize their emotions and potentially
avoid whomever they are jealous about. If it is someone close to them, they will do their very best to put aside
their emotions and continue the friendship as best they can.
Care of other's opinions rating: 5/16.
Should show appreciation by: Using words and actions is natural as is wanting to help and appreciate others.
Need to check whether this is being done because of a desire to be appreciated back instead of being helpful
just for the sake of being helpful.
Modus Operandi: Does not play Blame Gamez™. Forgives if good intentions.
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12. Achiever - ISTP
As Blamer: Blame can seem like a foolish waste of time.
As Blamee: Cannot see the point.
Jealousy Rating: Least.
When looking at others’ successes, they can generally recognize
that everyone has different strengths and a different path in life. Therefore, they are rarely jealous of others’
achievements. If anything they think “good for them” and use it as a motivating power. If they are unhealthy,
they can become very needy in terms of social validation and this can lead to their envy. In their relationships,
they can sometimes get jealous as well, especially at a partner’s infidelity. This jealousy will usually
present itself in the form of anger/rage.
Care of other's opinions rating: 14/16.
Should show appreciation by: Recognising that caring and showing appreciation by way of fixing or making something
may not be sufficient when others need more interaction.
Modus Operandi: Analyses and observes for future. Conceals their awareness of
who made the mistakes.
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13. Practitioner - ISFJ
As Blamer: Becomes bothered by the idea of shaming others.
As Blamee: Can be very hurt if blamed.
Jealousy Rating: Low.
Can have the tendency to become possessive in their
relationship with close friends or romantic interest and can become jealous in these if
they feel as if they are being replaced or not appreciated enough. They have a desire
for social validation and can become needy and jealous if they feel that they are not
being affirmed and appreciated. Then they will become critical of the other person for
spending time with others in a very passive aggressive way. They will not express their
feelings overtly and will certainly not criticize the other person openly as they are cowards.
Care of other's opinions rating: 3/16.
Should show appreciation by: Something beyond a traditional birthday cake or a special trip that is
exactly the same as in previous years. A workplace setting requires more.
Modus Operandi: Dislike seeing people feel victimised because they have been blamed.
Wants improvement and all are happy.
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14. Objective Thinker - ISTJ
As Blamer: Not just for blames sake. Want to be aware of who is doing the snafus.
As Blamee: Blames self but with no admission.
Jealousy Rating: Least.
Can get jealous over skills they see in others that they
wish they had or thought they were good at. However, they often learn to adapt and take on these
characteristics that they see in the other person. In addition, they can be sensitive in relationships
if they feel that they are being replaced and will feel suspicious towards whomever is entering the
other person’s life. They can usually recognize these thoughts as illogical and put a stop to them. However,
if they do feel them they will probably not outwardly show their emotions and instead internalize them.
Care of other's opinions rating: 9/16.
Should show appreciation by: Showing a more flexible approach as showing appreciation does not come
naturally due to the 'bottom line' approach.
Modus Operandi: Efficiency means informing mistake makers, altering responsibilities,
smooth running.
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15. Perfectionist - INTP
As Blamer: Quickly annoyed with people who are constantly seeking to blame others. When aware,
does not assign blame especially if minor errors.
As Blamee: Blames self but with no admission.
Jealousy Rating: Least.
Can usually rationalize themselves out of jealousy. They can recognize
that everyone is different and not needing social validation all the time. In addition, they can be
reasonable when approaching romantic relationships as well. If unhealthy, they may become unnaturally
needy for social validation, causing them to withdraw and internalize these emotions, attempting to
avoid the situation that is causing them these negative emotions.
Care of other's opinions rating: 13/16.
Should show appreciation by: Recognizing that because of constantly analyzing pros and cons,
any outward expression of appreciation may be forgotten completely as the tendency is not to
offer much appreciation. This is likely to cause problems in a leadership environment.
Make it a point to verbally show appreciation.
Modus Operandi: Wants accuracy. Solve the problem not assign the blame.
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16. Enhancer - INTJ
As Blamer: Analyses. Remembers for the future. Will be aware of surroundings and environment.
As Blamee: Better have your facts correct. Will not transfer blame to avoid it on self.
Jealousy Rating: Least.
Tend to be rock solid in their own perceptions of their friends or
significant other, making them unlikely to be nervous about another’s actions if they have deemed them
as loyal. However, they may get jealous if they see someone who is more successful than them in an area.
Generally this will just motivate them to work harder, adapting their behaviour to achieve the success
they desire. If these feelings do translate into jealousy, they will internalize it and not outwardly
express it.
Care of other's opinions rating: 16/16.
Should show appreciation by: Recognizing that because of being totally self-reliant,
the importance of regularly appreciating others is often not done. Make a point of sharing kind words and deeds
by way of adding reminders to the calendar. But not too many to become overloaded.
Modus Operandi: Not interested in finding people to blame, but requires responsibility.
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and how to show appreciation. Also, how jealous someone is.