Situation - Keenly observe these traits to assist in picking their pattern.

I am dedicated to my significant other when I am in a relationship even though I tend to stray away from my feelings and emotions.

I am very serious about committing to my partner, so I can seem a little controlling when I have a hard time expressing how I feel for my partner. I may come off as overbearing when I express my emotions through my actions and I want things to be done my way.

I am ranked 5/16.

I am a handful because I am not the most sensitive soul so I can seem a bit (lot) hurtful when I am trying to get something done and incompetent others are getting in my way.

Give me my freedom as I like knowing that I have agency over my own thoughts and opinions and that nobody can force me to conform to something in which I do not believe.

I am very passionate. I am highly emotional and I can easily keep the conversation flowing.

My passion can be taken as being overbearing and controlling, when I am just looking to continue having fun.

I am ranked 6/16.

I am a handful because I often take risks that might frighten and confuse those around me.

Give me my freedom as I am daring and impulsive and I want the space in which to test myself and push to the limit of my capabilities.

I am very aware of my partner's feelings.

I see myself as less likely to be controlling because I am so concerned about my partner's happiness. I will put my own emotional needs on the back burner to make their significant other happy.

The above is somewhat surprising given that I always know what is best for others, when it is usually not.

I am a handful because because I manipulate, smother and interfere. I can also be intolerably narcissistic, when my life is all about 'supply', control, manipulation, selfishness and passive-aggressiveness.

Give me my freedom as I feel best in an environment where everyone is getting along [Ed. Unrealistic], where there is a free-flow of ideas and communication is honest and authentic.

I am very passionate, but sometimes put the cart before the horse. I can come into problems with being controlling when I am thinking about all the ensless possibilities.

When I try to get to the future faster than it comes, it can come across as controlling. I really need to focus on the present; one thing at a time - including attention to being on time.

I am ranked 4/16.

I am a handful because my sense of passion and curiosity are light years ahead of completing anything.

Give me my freedom as I crave the opportunity to speak my mind without judgment or misunderstanding while having no schedule.

I am not the kind of person that will be very controlling.

I am the one who would rather defer to their significant other so taht I do not have to make decisions but, when I do, I take my partner's wants and needs into consideration.

I am ranked 12/16.

I am a handful because of my desire to take risks and to live with a sense of free rein and also when I feel that I am being controlled by others. I am the most likely to get upset or angry and show it, as well being the most likely to get upset or angry and not show it.

Give me my freedom as I like to listen to myself, to discern what is right even if that means departing from what the rest of my peers or society tells me is right.

I can have overly idealized expectations for my relationships as with everything else.

My idealism can lead to struggles in my relationship and lead to conflict because I have certain needs that I need to be met in my relationship; needs that are never, ever, satisfied.

I am ranked 7/16.

I am a handful because I am a dizzy daydreamer with my head buzzing with creative and imagined concepts constantly, I am unpredictable, not easy to understand, lazy, whinging, never satisfied, miserable and meddle in other people's affairs.

Give me my freedom as I like to be truly myself – to cast aside peer pressure, societal expectations and worn-out traditions to be my best as a unique individual.

I can be a bit controlling, especially in leadership positions for which I am most unsuitable. I use the power of the position - "You cannot park here!"

I enjoy having a strict structure and order in life. So, while I may be controlling, I am very loyal and faithful in my relationships even if they have run their time.

I am ranked 2/16.

I am a handful because I hover and smother when I am worried or concerned for the well-being of someone.

Give me my freedom as I like a dependable routine which gives me a sense of calm, allowing me to experience the world without feeling overwhelmed by chaos or unpredictability.

I am are highly unlikely to become controlling in my relationship.

I keep myself distant until I am comfortable and have proven myself in my relationship. I struggle with expressing my emotions.

I am ranked 14/16.

I am a handful because I believe in being precise and do not hold back for the sake of others' feelings. I am useless at fixing anything.

Give me my freedom as I want to understand how the world works and how everything is put together from the ground up; in theory.